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Put an "S" for Strength, "G" for Growth, or "NA" for Not Applicable next to each characteristic listed below
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1. We have a number of common interests
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2. We like to have fun together
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3. We feel comfortable with each other
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4. We like to give each other a chance to do new things
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5. We enjoy hearing our grandparents' stories about the past
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6. We enjoy sijmple, inexpensive family activities
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7. We like to have a place we call "home"
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8. We feel strongly connected to each other
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9. Hanging out together builds strong relationships
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10. We have lots of good times together
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11. We often laugh with each other
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12. Observing family rituals and customs is important to us
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13. We enjoy sharing our memories with each other
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14. We enjoy having unplanned, spontaneous activities together
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15. All things considered, we have adequate time for each other and we enjoy the time we share together
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16. We appreciate each other and let each other know this
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17. We enjoy helping each other
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18. We like keeping our promises to each other
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19. We like to show affection to each other
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20. We feel close to each other
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21. We like to be kind to each other
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22. We like to hug each other
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23. We enjoy being thoughtful of each other.
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24. We wait for each other without complaining
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25. We give each other enough time to complete necessary tasks
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26. We are able to forgive each other
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27. We grow stronger because we love each other
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28. All things considered, we have appreciation and affection for each other
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29. We like to share our feelings with each other
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30. It is easy to cue into each other's feelings
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31. We like talking openly with each other
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32. We listen to each other
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33. We respect each other's point of view
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34. Talking through issues is important to us
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35. We give each other a chance to explain ourselves
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36. We enjoy our family discussions
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37. We share jokes together
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38. Putdowns are rare
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39. Sarcasm is not generally used
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40. All things considered, our communication is effective
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41. Responsibilities are shared fairly
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42. Everyone gets a say in making decisions
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43. Individuals are allowed to make their own choices
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44. We find it easy to trust each other
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45. We like to do things for each other that make us feel good about ourselves
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46. We have reasonable expectations of each other
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47. We allow each other to be ourselves
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48. We have a high regard for each other
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49. We respect the roles each of us plays in the family
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50. We find it easy to be honest with each other
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51. We accept that each of us has different ways of doing things
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52. We build each other's self-esteem
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53. All things considered, we value each other and are committed to our well-being as a family
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54. We have a hopeful attitude toward life
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55. Our home feels like a sanctuary to all of us
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56. We have a strong sense of belonging
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57. We enjoy learning about our family history
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58. We feel strong connections with our ancestors
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59. There is a feeling of safety and security
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60. We feel connected with nature and the world around us
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61. We feel a strong connection with the land
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62. There is a sense of peace among us
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63. We believe love is a powerful force that keeps us together
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64. We benefit in many ways from our belief in a higher being
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65. It is easy to share our spiritual values and beliefs with each other
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66. Our personal religious beliefs are compatible with each other's
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67. All things considered, we have strong spiritual connections that enhance our well-being
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68. A crisis has helped us to grow closer together
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69. It is easy to find solutions to our problems when we talk about them
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70. It is always important to change the things we can
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71. We can work together to solve very difficult family problems
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72. A crisis helps make our relationships strong
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73. We try not to worry too much because things usually work out OK
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74. We are able to face daily issues confidently
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75. We like to support each other
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76. Our friends are there when we need them
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77. A crisis makes us stick closer together
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78. We always find something good comes from a crisis
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79. We find it easy to make changes in our plans to meet changing circumstances
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80. We have the courage to take risks that will improve things for our family
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81. We feel it is important to accept the things we cannot change
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82. All things considered, we look at challenges as opportunities for growth
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83. We love one another
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84. Life in our family is satisfying to us
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85. We are happy as a family
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86. All things considered, we are a strong family
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